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John A. Proko

May 15, 1930 ∼ November 01, 2026

John A. Proko

John A. Proko, long-time funeral director and founder of the Proko Funeral Home died, Sunday November 1, 2026, at the age of 96. For more than seven decades, John had been a fixture within the funeral profession comforting generations of Kenosha area families.

John was born, May 15, 1930, in Pulaski, WI, to the late Mahlon and Rosamond (Gajewski) Prokopovitz. On June 8, 1949, John married Magdalene “Maggie” Ullmer.

In 1953, he graduated from the Wisconsin Institute of Mortuary Science and received his funeral director’s license. John spent his early career working at the Borgwardt Funeral Home in West Allis, WI for nine years.

On May 15, 1962, John purchased a funeral home in Kenosha that would go on to bear his name and become the trusted multi-generational firm that continues to be family-owned transitioning from his son Larry to his granddaughter Rachael.

Known throughout the state for his leadership in the profession, John was a former President of the Wisconsin Funeral Directors Association (WFDA) and was honored with a special citation celebrating his historic 70-plus years of active dedicated service to the profession. Even into his 90’s, John continued to be present for those families who looked to him for comfort.

Beyond his professional calling, John was a man of boundless energy and civic duty. In 1963 he was honored as Man of the Year by the Kenosha Jaycees, and he later proudly served as President of the Kenosha Chamber of Commerce—which named him Business Man of the Year in 2002. John also served as President of the Kenosha Public Museum, and the new public museum was built during his presidency. He served as President of the Kiwanis Club of Western Kenosha, as a member of the city Airport Commission, as a board member of the Bank of Kenosha, and as an Advisory Board Member for the Kenosha Hospice Alliance. He was also a member of the 306 Club.

John gave generously of himself. He was a regular blood donor at the Blood Center of Kenosha and in 2013 was recognized for donating more than 100 units. As a cancer survivor, he served on the steering committee for the American Cancer Society’s Relay for Life, as well as an honorary chairman.

Deeply religious, John was a member of St. Mary’s Catholic Church and was honored for an extraordinary 70 years of service as a 4th Degree Knight with the Knights of Columbus. He served as part of the Immaculate Mother Mary Council, number 14362, under Archbishop Messmer, Assembly 1201. He was also a member of the Kenosha Serra Club.

John enjoyed many forms of adventure throughout his life. At the age of 17 he learned to fly. His love of flying went on to include owning a series of planes, running a charter service, being a member of the Flying Funeral Directors of America, and being a charter member of both the Wisconsin Aeronauts Commission and the American Bonanza Society. In total John logged over 5,000 hours of piloted air flight. John had been an avid snow skier highlighted by a trip to the Swiss Alps. He purchased his first Harley at age 68, and his most extraordinary ride was a journey of more than 5,000 miles from Fairbanks, Alaska. At age 50, John began running and did so for many years until the run became a walk and even then, completed nine miles a week. For many years he ran in the Mayor’s Turkey Day Run, proudly showing off his medals. He especially enjoyed vacationing in Florida and spending time with his family in Waupaca’s Chain O’ Lakes.

John was preceded in death by his wife, Magdalene "Maggie" Proko; and siblings, Elinor (Clayton), Mahlon (Lucille), Paul (Phyllis), David, and Mary Ann (Robert).

His survivors include his children, Kay (Bill) Dreher, Don (Kelly) Proko, Lynn (Jim) Siering, Larry (Tammy) Proko, Carole (Nelson) Thulin, and Gail Proko; as well as eleven grandchildren, Dr. Stephanie (Nick) Momper, Rebecca (Troy) Herrera, Elizabeth (Kevin) Sand, Michael DiCello III, Joel (Penelope) DiCello, Cheryl (Naoya) DiCello, Rachael (Dreu) Proko-Viola, Leah (Andy) Pitts, Spencer Thulin, Paige (India) Thulin, and Noah Thulin; and 14 great-grandchildren.

To describe John is to include the following: hardworking, loyal, generous, funny, driven, loving, sympathetic, honest, full of energy and passionate. He was a businessman, a husband, a father, grandfather and great-grandfather, and friend that we all looked up to.

We love you more than you could ever understand.

Visitation will be held from 4:00 pm – 7:00 pm on Thursday, November 5, 2026, at Proko Funeral Home with a Knights of Columbus service at 6:45 pm, and from 11:00 am – 12:00 noon on Friday, November 6, 2026, at St. Mary Catholic Church 7307 40th Avenue, Kenosha, WI. Mass of Christian Burial will commence at 12:00 noon Friday. Interment will follow in St. James Cemetery, Kenosha, WI. Those desiring may make contributions in John’s memory to Hospice Alliance or to the St. Mary Catholic Church Building Fund.

Condolences

Sam & Cecelia Perri November 4, 2026
Sorry for the passing of John. We go way back to early Kiwanis days. Nice guy and a true gentleman.
Diane (Depa) Kreye November 4, 2026
John, there just aren't enough words I can say for all you have done for our family. My dad and you became friends back when he was at Becker Inc. From there we found that you and my mom graduated together from Pulaski High School. I then graduated from St. Joe's with Larry. Your family then laid my dad Tony to rest in 2010, my husband John in 2013 and my son in 2018. You made us feel like family. You were always a gentleman who treated everyone with respect and dignity. You will be so missed by so many. My deepestest sympathy to all the Proko family. Rest in Peace John. Naz drowia.
William Althaus November 4, 2026
To John’s Family, It was because of John, as I was a young man, I decided to choose a funeral profession. He was not only my first boss, but also a mentor who played such an important role in my life. He made a lasting impact on my career and I will be forever grateful for his guidance. I am sorry I’m not able to attend the visitation or the mass because I’m currently out of state. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. With love, Bill Althaus
Lutie Allen-Voreis November 3, 2026
John gave me quite the memory and adventure as a young girl. He flew me in his private plane from Green Bay to spend a week with his daughter and my friend Kay at their home in the Milwaukee area. My very first plane ride was pretending to be his co-pilot. I was lucky to spend a few more vacation trips with John, Maggie and their family. It's been so nice to enjoy being with him and the Proko family at Ullmer reunions over the years. He was quite the man. You all have my condolences and thanks.
Charmaine Robinson November 3, 2026
John and his wife used to go dancing with my Aunt Betty and Uncle Clarence Matalas. He was very supportive when my parents died. . He knew the Gelsone family well.. I am so sorry for your loss. He lived life to the fullest and was admired by many. He will be missed. My heartfelt condolences to all who knew and loved him. Charmaine Gelsone Robinson
Dick and Sharon Regner November 3, 2026
We extend our sincere condolences to the entire Proko family. John lived a full life and positively impacted our community both professionally and personally. God Bless John!
Joan maurer hansen November 3, 2026
Such a great man, and friend. He will be missed
Nancy Gantzer Ledzki November 3, 2026
My condolences to the entire Proko family. John and Maggie were friends with my parents years ago. On occasion I would see Mr Proko working at the Taste of Wisconsin. We’d have a quick chat, him reminiscing about my parents. Such a nice man. Rest in Peace
Geri Pulera November 3, 2026
I’m so sorry to hear of Mr. Prokos’ passing. My condolences to Larry and family.
Ellen Kupfer November 3, 2026
My condolences to all. I have so many wonderful memories of him. A really good guy.
Emilia Debicka Braun November 3, 2026
Very sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences.
Marty and Karen Kny November 3, 2026
JOHN was truly an inspiration to so many of us a wonderful friend and travel companion. He enjoyed life and never missed a Sunday Mass even when traveling overseas.
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Gail Cunningham November 3, 2026
My condolences to all the Proko family. My you find peace in all your loving memories of him..❤️
Mark Buchanan November 3, 2026
I saw John at many WFDA conventions over the years and enjoyed visiting and listening to him. My sincere sympathy. Mark Buchanan - Kewaunee
John & Barb Wenig November 3, 2026
Hello Larry, Barb and I send our heartfelt thoughts and prayers to you and your family. I got to know John at OGR and WFDA events years ago and always had nice time visiting with him. He was always encouraging and inspirational. May the peace of God be yours. -John & Barb
Susie Allen November 3, 2026
My last memory of John is him sitting in the Ullmer family room with Jerry during the 2025 Aug reunion, sipping beer, snacking on pickled herring and crackers, and joking about being old men. My deepest sympathies for your loss. What a great guy, and such a kind smile.
Neil Guttormsen November 3, 2026
John was a terrific guy and had so many friends professionally or otherwise. Of course, he will be missed but his legacy will forever be remembered and remain in our memories. I am proud to have known him as a friend and wish the Proko family members God's grace while you endure this loss of his presence.
Dennis and Natalie Troha November 3, 2026
John you will be missed but you always will be remembered in our fondest memories. Enjoy your daily walks in heaven and rest in peace after your exercise. Peace to the extended Proko family. Natalie and Dennis
Therese (Stancato) Kavalauskas November 3, 2026
So sorry for the loss of your Dad. We were neighbors when I was a young girl and he was always so nice. And, always so friendly when we would see him anywhere. Thoughts & prayers are with your family.
Majbritt Andersen-Stewart November 3, 2026
My deepest condolences to the Proko family. I only met John a handful of times at Don's business. He was always smiling and full of life. What an amazing life he had!
Tom & Gail Smith November 3, 2026
Our sympathies to the Proko. Family. Mr. Proko came to my parents home when our daughter passed away & gave me so much comfort & understanding. Very patient talking us through everything. He was so kind. The world has lost a wonderful man. RIP John Proko so well deserved.
Sharon Salas November 3, 2026
I am so sorry to the Proko family. He was a friend of my dad, Andy Wilson for many many years. They were in Kiwanis together and shared countless good times. Mr Proko was a very kind, generous man. RIP
Michael Laudonio November 3, 2026
My heartfelt sympathy to the entire Proko Family. John was one of a kind, whom I had looked up to for many years. It was a privilege to call him a friend. May he rest in peace.
Jean Hubbard November 3, 2026
To the entire Proko Family My deepest sympathies and prayers at this time. As stated, your father was truly a Kenosha legend and will be remembered by many as such a kind hearted individual. Take care
Peter Mueller November 3, 2026
Deepest condolences to the Proko family. His legacy will live on through all of you. Through your work you’ve helped so many Kenosha families, and for that we are grateful. ❤️
Lisa westphal November 3, 2026
So very sorry to the whole family on the loss of a great man. 🙏🏻💙
Maggie Regner-Hodge November 3, 2026
My sincere condolences to the entire Proko family. John was a friend to my dad and family. He was so kind and took care of us over the years, especially when my dad passed. Rest in peace 🙏❤️
Trisha Blaine November 3, 2026
Sending love and prayers as you all navigate the loss of such a wonderful man. He touched so many lives in their moments of grief. May you feel the same from all of Kenosha during this difficult time.
Diane Taglianetti November 3, 2026
I think his profession was a calling for him. He was so kind and compassionate. He was so helpful when my parents passed. He was a class act. May he Rest in Peace.
Angela Gemignani November 3, 2026
My deepest sympathy to all the Proko family. You couldn't have had a better head of your family. He always showed kindness to everyone who he met. He was such a valued person and will be so missed. May you find peace in the days ahead knowing he left such a positive impact on his family and the community.
Mike De Fazio November 3, 2026
Mr. Proko was a true gentleman. A very holy humble man. He was a personal family friend for decades. As a fellow Knight of Columbus, John was an exemplary Christian. The community has lost a wonderful individual. Michael A. De Fazio
Sherri (Ruffolo) Stipek November 3, 2026
Prayers to the entire Proko family. John has been a fixture in my life through my dad, Ralph, and Kiwanis. John has also presided over many of my families funeral services. He was a wonderful man with such a caring soul. He will be missed. John, I hope you and all your buddies from Kiwanis are back together again teeing off.
Mark and Diane Montemurro November 3, 2026
We are saddened to hear that John Proko has passed away. I've known him as a young girl as he took care of all my Andrea family members including my Grandma. Now we were neighbors for 8 years. It was always so nice to see him walking on those nice summer days and we would visit with each other. Our prayers are with the entire Proko family.
Todd McMahon November 3, 2026
My condolences to the Proko family. John has touched a lot of us over the years.
Jayne Nudi November 3, 2026
My thoughts and prayers are with the Proko family. Your father helped with services for several family members. Always sympathetic and caring. Rest in peace
Calla Ricciardi November 3, 2026
I remember John for so many years as a friend of my dad. John was such a good guy. So sorry for your loss.
Christopher Chvilicek November 3, 2026
My condolences to the Proko family and all at Proko Funeral Home. Wishing you comfort and prayers.
Sheryl Turner -Kenosha November 3, 2026
We are so sorry to hear of the passing of John.. The neighborhood is never going to be the same what a nice man he was... He followed another neighbor Gary Turner into heaven this week after greeting all those he knew and loved I am pretty sure John & Gary had a handshake and hug... Rest easy John sympathy to your family we loved your granddaughters and daughter Gail who we know.... Family prayers you find your peace as I am still trying to do so here...
John November 3, 2026
What a legend in funeral service. Such a man of good character. Alll my respect to your entire family.
Lora November 3, 2026
Your dad was such a wonderful man. I always enjoyed my time with him. His smile and sense of humor was infectious. Thanks for sharing him with the world. It was an honor and privilege to meet and laugh with a true gentleman.
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schedule Thursday, November 5, 2026 at 4:00 PM – 7:00 PM

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schedule Thursday, November 5, 2026 at 6:45 PM

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schedule Friday, November 6, 2026 at 12:00 PM

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