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James Lee Van Bendegom

November 28, 1948 ∼ July 30, 1967

James ‘Jim’ Lee Van Bendegom 19, died July 1967 while a POW during the Vietnam War. A resident of Kenosha, he was born November 28, 1948, the second of four sons of the late Robert Paul and Virginia Van Bendegom. His father, a World War II veteran was a machinist and member of Local machinist Union 34; while his mother was a full-time home maker and exceptionally active in various functions at their family church. As a member of Trinity Lutheran Church he attended Sunday school, sang in the youth choir, and participated in numerous youth events, such as Luther League. Upon completing required classes he was confirmed as an adult member. He enjoyed hunting and fishing with his father, brothers and friends alike. Jim delivered newspapers for the Kenosha news, and as a high school student worked at Sunnyside Grocery store. He was known for his quite, charismatic and free-spirited demeanor especially with the numerous young ladies whom he dated. Jim attended Kenosha Public schools, including Tremper High School until the fall of 1966. In January 1967 after volunteering for induction into the Army he received basic and advance training at Fort Jackson, South Carolina as an infantryman and recoilless rifle specialist. Following a 30-day leave, he departed his Kenosha home on Father’s day for Vietnam where he was assigned to 3rd platoon of B Company, 1st Battalion, 12th Regiment of the 4th Infantry Division. On July 12, 1967 during his unit’s most costly combat engagement in Central Highlands near the Cambodian border, Jim was severely wounded and captured by enemy forces. With unverifiable information as to his fate, Jim was classified as Missing-In-Action for several years that followed. Based on circumstantial evidence in 1969, his family was informed Jim maybe alive and a Prisoner of War. In 1973 returning Prisoners of War reported Jim had died of his battle wounds in July 1967 shortly after capture while a prisoner. His remains could not be recovered at the time. On October 17, 2014 Jim’s family was informed a portion of his remains had been recovered and positively identified through DNA testing. After 47 years he will be returned to Kenosha and laid to final rest with full military honors. For his actions and personal sacrifice, he was posthumously awarded the Purple Heart, Prisoner of War Medal, Republic of Vietnam Gallantry Cross, Republic of Vietnam Gallantry Cross Unit Citation, and the Republic of Vietnam Civil Actions Honor Medal Unit Citation, first Class. He was also awarded the Army Good Conduct Medal, National Defense Service Medal, Vietnam Service Medal, Combat Infantry Badge with Recoilless Rifle Bar, and Sharpshooter Badge. While classified MIA and a POW, he was promoted to the rank of Staff Sergeant. Jim’s legacy of living life to the fullest and forsaking his life in defense of his nation’s values will be remembered by those whom were blessed to have known him. Continuing to mourn his loss, he is survived today by his mother Virginia; brothers Michael (Darlene) of Madison, WI; Bob (Sue) and Gary of Kenosha; nieces – Kelly, Melinda, Jodi; and nephews – Jeff, Ken, David and Jim. A graveside side service with full military honors will be held on Tuesday November 11th (Veterans Day) at 11:00 a.m. at Sunset Ridge Memorial Park. Proko Funeral Home & Crematory5111-60th Street Phone: (262) 654-3533Visit James Online Memorial Book at:www.prokofuneralhome.com

Condolences

Karel Bretsch November 12, 2014
Virginia, Mike, Gary and FamilyMy brother, Captain James Ketterer, United States Air Force from Milwaukee, WI was shot down over Vietnam on January 20, 1968. My mother, Norma Ketterer Hesse, became a good friend of Virginia's as they spent many hours together at the League of Families get togethers. So thankful that all of you were now able to have some closure. My mother died 3 years ago at the age of 98 years. My sincere sympathy to you.Karel
Mellissa M. Richmond November 10, 2014
From one veteran to another, thank you for your service. May God bless you, your family and friends.
Carol Wood November 9, 2014
I remember the Vanbendegoms from Trinity Lutheran Church back in the days of Pastor Roth. Mrs. Vanbendegom played the piano for our Sunday School. She was so nice and such an inspiration. I think I was in Junior High when her son was missing in action. I will never forget the day I overheard her talking to another person in the church hallway downstairs and she was very excited, saying something about how her son had been possibly spotted alive after being MIA in Viet Nam. The hope and light in her eyes has stayed with me all these years. I have never forgotten her nor him and have thought of both of them often. Although death is never easy, no matter if it is sudden or long expected, I am happy that she lived to have this closure and is finally able to bury her son. God bless you and your family Mrs Vanbendegom and may your son rest in peace surrounded by the love and prayers of your family and friends.
wanda mcclelland leiting November 8, 2014
I wore and cherished this brave soldier's bracelet from 1974 until 15 years ago when my sister retired it at a virtual wall ceremony. My heartfelt condolences to his family. Rest in Peace James.
Jeanne (Fennema) Panarale November 7, 2014
So many thoughts and so few words. Welcomehome Jimmy! Our prayers are with all of youat this time of peace. God Bless. Jeanne
don nickerson November 2, 2014
Welcome home James. May the Lord comfort your family. RIP Bro. Hand Salute to
Jeff Doc Dentice November 2, 2014
Peace to the VanBendegon family, and thankful that James has finally come home. Very proud to have had a Tribute of James on my Wisconsin Vietnam 37 web page over all these years. He will remain there, with a note letting everyone know he has returned to Wisconsin.www.war-veterans.org/Wi37.htmGod Bless
Laurie Wagner November 2, 2014
Virginia is my Godmother. My mom, Katie Wagner was good friends with her and I remember as a little girl my mom talking about this over and over. That and David Leet. I was pretty young but I know how much it impacted my mom I can only imagine how it did your family. I hope this brings some relief to your family. I am so glad that Virginia is going to get to bury her son after all these years. God Bless you and your family and God Bless Jim for the service he gave to our country at such a young age.
Roberts Family October 29, 2014
A long time to wait but a fitting tribute on Veterans Day. May the family finally have peace. Our hearts are with you.