Shirley A Norberg

1926 ∼ 2023

Shirley passed away on April 11, 2023, at the age of 96.Shirley Ann Ruth Pierson Norberg was one of those bright souls that left a trail of stardust in her wake mixed with a bit of soot, a big dollop of humor, all wrapped in humility. She was a favorite soul in the eyes and caring hands of the Hospice care team and care providers at Parkside, where she completed her life, we heard over and over again “Shirley is my favorite!”, “We love Shirley so much!” “Shirley is a part of my family.” The distress and concern for her not to be in pain as she approached her death were genuine. She was attended to with dignity and empathy, for which we are thankful.As a child of The Great Depression, Shirley was an involuntary minimalist, which stayed with her for life. Over the course of her 35-year marriage to Willard Norberg, she had everything she needed for herself and her family, but “things” were never important to her. She raised her four children in the unique way only a professional musician could, earning a paycheck but playing entirely to convey a message of peace and comfort through the voice of her violin. This gift she shared endlessly with strangers, friends, and family. Only a few children get the privilege of growing up with daily musical nourishment from a violinist.Shirley will always be a source of fun memories, for her children, Denise, Carol, Roger, and Sandy, and her children-in-law, David Johnson, Mike Bennett, Susan Norberg, and Mac Shoulders. Her children are forever grateful that she was not a divisive family matron, but a caring and loving one who expected nothing more than for us all to get along.For her grandchildren, Will, Anna, Leslie, Carl, Callie, Lynley, Gus, and Caleb, their cherished memories will not dim, and she will forever be the source of storytelling among them and laughter. They have a library of shenanigans to recount, especially her April Fool’s Day pranks and her incognito bottle stuffing runs to the recycling facility in Iron Mountain, Michigan. She had pointed comments used to shock and amuse and taught them all how important music is in their world.She was the oldest of three sisters. Beverly and Nancy were her younger siblings. Their parents had both passed away by the time Shirley was 9 years old. They were orphaned very young and taken in by benevolent relatives in Sioux City, Iowa. Due to the hardship of the time, they were separated, Beverly to one household and Nancy with Shirley to another. All three were blessed with fortitude, a sense of humor, determination, and art. Beverly was a “home ec goddess” with the talent to bring together two seemingly unrelated pieces of textile and create a finely crafted and beautiful piece of clothing for someone. She was also a master chef and baker. Nancy is a librarian and a fine cellist but also developed an insatiable curiosity for crafting handmade rugs, dolls, and tied quilts which she shares widely. Shirley was a natural musician, but her art skills were limited to drawing stick figures. For many years her nimble musician’s hands crafted crocheted blankets for anyone who even hinted that they would like to have one. She was a connoisseur of leftover yarn, from which she made what she affectionately called “ugly blankets” that she hoped might reach less fortunate people in need of warmth. Her starting point was a bag of miscellaneous yarn stubs, from which random pulls were crocheted without care for color or texture. Shirley never shied away from a crocheting challenge. Her body of work included: sweaters for Gus’s stuffed animals, a custom crocheted ski hat, and a thong-bottomed bathing suit for a Barbie doll.Shirley had her musician community but also her social community. She and Willard entertained and socialized in the full-on 1960s style. Her networks were expansive, including church family, Covenant Village and Parkside friends, and her rock star status in Talkeetna, Alaska. Shirley visited Sandy in Talkeetna year after year for months at a time. Among her experiences there were: flying in a small plane and landing on a glacier more than once (Shirley did not like to fly), riding on a dog sled twice, once as an “ Iditarider" where she was dumped out of the sled (at the age of 80), being a star for numerous local concerts to support the local radio station, and teaching violin which helped establish a string program for Denali Arts Council. She built her own friendships and was a constant support for Sandy and Mac as they navigated parenthood.Throughout Shirley’s life, she was generous, funny, encouraging, providing us with an expectation that she would always be there - and she always will be. In lieu of flowers, kindly consider a memorial donation to:St. James Lutheran Church, 1380 N. Waukegan Rd, Lake Forest Illinois 60045Lake Forest Civic Orchestra, PO Box 889, Lake Forest, Illinois 60045Denali Arts Council Music Academy PO Box 404, Talkeetna AK 99676.Please join us for a Service of Celebration and Thanksgiving to God in Memory of Shirley Norbergon Friday, April 21, 2023, at St. James Lutheran Church, 1380 N. Waukegan Rd, Lake Forest, Illinois 60045.12 PM Visitation with Shirley’s family with a 1:00 PM Service.Proko Funeral Home & Crematory5111-60th StreetKenosha, WI 53144Phone: (262) 654-3533Visit & Sign Shirley’sOnline Memorial Book at:www.prokofuneralhome.com

Condolences

Nancy MacGibbon April 26, 2023
I have such wonderful memories of Shirley! When she came to MN, she'd always have her violin and lots of sheet music to share and play with anyone who wanted to play. My heart is especially warmed when I think of a particular time playing piano with Shirley at my mom and dad's house (Roger's in-laws) with Shirley's daughter(s) on violin, my mom sharing the piano, and two of my cousins playing viola and bass. My aunt, who had just lost her husband and was ill at the time, came to listen and absorbed all the beauty and community Shirley arranged! My aunt was thrilled! Making music was always about connecting with others, for Shirley. She was so generous with her heart and her music. What an honor to make music with such a great woman! Peace to you all!
Lisa Ritter April 25, 2023
Shirley played an important role in my life, my mother Elaine, my aunt Dorothy, and my grandparents life Bertha & Frank Nelson. She had a beautiful sense of humor and shared her talents with my entire family. I have stood on the Pierson sisters shoulders and am profoundly proud to be a part of Shirley’s family All of us she touched are so fortunate to have known her.I will miss you Shirley
Jenny Bevington April 24, 2023
Shirley and I participated in a couple of exercise classes together and saved seats for one another. She also headed up the Bakery effort for Holly Fair and I worked with her on that. Shirley was the head of an evening bridge group and gave an annual party for the players, and I helped her with that as well. I always enjoyed the programs Shirley was involved in especially when her daughters would perform with her. Shirley shared many family stories with me about all her children and her performing years. I felt close to her; she was like a mother to me and I appreciated it. Like everyone at Covenant Living of Northbook, I miss her often but delight in the photo that hangs in the beauty shop.
Melinda Voelcker April 17, 2023
I had the pleasure of meeting Shirley at St. James and we soon discovered we had a connection going back to her college days. My piano teacher in Hawarden, IA was a college classmate and dear friend to Shirley. My teacher’s name was Priscilla Shoemaker - a phenomenal teacher, and gifted pianist/musician, like Shirley. I could easily tell why they were drawn to each other in music. Shirley played her violin with Damascus Road several times at St.James and she brought such a joy to each piece she played! I admired her musicianship, but also her wicked sense of humor. She always made me smile and could make me giggle at church. I will miss her kindness, willingness to share her gift, the twinkle in her eye when the punchline was close and her smile. Heaven has gained an amazing soul that we all are so blessed to have known . Heaven’s orchestra is in for a treat - and they better be able to keep up, too! Love and prayers to all the Norberg Family!Blessings and Condolences,The VoelckersMelinda, Joe, Mackenzie & Sophia
Susan Francisco April 17, 2023
Shirley was always one of my very favorite people at Svecia. I, and everyone else, loved listening to her play her violin and the piano which she generously donated to Svecia. I was her recycling helper although she certainly did the bulk of it. I remember how she would tell me I had to look in 14 places to find all the cans. It was a big and messy job and she seemed to love it. Especially finding the 10 cent cans. Over the years, Shirley collected close to $3,000. from all those cans. All of which she gave to Svecia. And every Sunday we would do the Chicago Tribune crossword puzzles together. Such fun. So many memories. Shirley was one of a kind and we were blessed to have her in our lives for a very long time.
Janet Billings April 16, 2023
Memories of a wonderful time playing in the Lake Forest Symphony of the 1970"s. She will be kept in my thoughts for a lovely time. Janet Billings
Amy Neill April 15, 2023
My condolences to all the family 🙏Shirley was such a talented and wonderful lady and many times was like a mom to me. Spent a few Mothers Day with her and Sandy in Talkeetna.Many happy memories of her, Sandy and her siblings growing up in Lake Forest. Her musical talent and influence was monumental.
Cathy Teich April 15, 2023
Shirley was an amazing force, a beautiful spirit that brought music, joy, and spunk wherever she went. I have the honor of having one of her beautiful crocheted throws...and I don't mean an ugly blanket. It is a beautiful burgundy throw with an intricate design. Such a multi-talented lady! I am thankful to her children for sharing her with me when she was in Alaska. Although she will be greatly missed, her memory will live on with love and music. Sending heartfelt love to all of her family.
Ginny Sommers April 15, 2023
Denise,My sympathy in the loss of your mother. What a remarkable woman she was. I certainly can see a lot of those wonderful traits in you. Shirley knew how to enjoy life to the fullest and was a survivor from little on!! May you have fond memories!!
Jonathan Bennett April 14, 2023
My favorite memory of Mrs. Norberg is meeting her! Mom, Dad, my sister-in-law Kathi’s mom and I were going to Lafayette, Louisiana, to see Kathi, her husband Mark, my brother, and their family. And that first evening of our trip, we all met Mrs. Norberg and her husband Willard in West Chicago. I played a fiddling tune for them, followed by Mrs. Norberg playing another. Did we have fun! —By the way, I love that picture of Mrs. Norberg playing the violin at the beginning of this book. It’s so beautiful! —I love you, Mrs. Norberg. See you again.
Barry Grant April 14, 2023
Q: What will you never forget about Shirley? A: Shirley and my Mother were the same age. They both grew up during the depression in humble but loving surroundings. Both made their living by playing music, and had children who still play to this day. It was a joy to see both of our Mothers meet and play a music duet together on Mother’s day in Talkeetna, Alaska. Over 180 years of combined musical experience put into that duet. It brought tears.
Rene Marion April 14, 2023
A beautiful remembrance of a beautiful person.
Alison Ruddenklau April 13, 2023
Dear Roger, Susan and family. We were so lucky to have met Shirley - such a lovely remarkable lady. Fond memories. Much love to you allArohanui Alison, Ross, Claire and Richard x
Mike Bennett April 13, 2023
From the first day I met Shirley to the day I married her daughter Carol, and for more than 41 years after, Shirley showered me with kindness, grace, and encouragement. I am grateful that she was my mother-in-law and grandmother to our children. May light eternal shine on her.