Mary Agnes Rafferty

1933 ∼ 2019

Mary Rafferty, age 86, of Milwaukee, formerly of Kenosha and Hartford, WI, died peacefully surrounded by family on October 12, 2019 following a brief illness. She was born in Sparta, WI, April 19, 1933, to the late Joseph and Coletta Doyle. Mary was educated in Sparta schools and graduated from Marquette University’s College of Journalism. At Marquette she met her future husband, Dr. Hugh Rafferty, whom she married in LaCrosse in 1955. They lived in Kenosha for more than 30 years before moving to Hartford in 2008 and to a retirement community in Milwaukee in 2015. An avid reader, Mary enjoyed her book club and the satisfaction of solving crosswords and other word puzzles on a daily basis. She was a formidable foe on the Scrabble board yet never gloated over her many triple-word scores. Long before e-mail, she was in the habit of keeping in touch with old school classmates and other friends through handwritten letters, a practice that continued throughout her life. When she met a new friend at an inn in Ireland, the two began a16-year exchange of letters across the Atlantic. Mary followed all Wisconsin sports teams, especially the Milwaukee Bucks and Brewers, but her heart belonged to the University of Notre Dame. Her passion for the Irish was an inheritance from her father, a student at the university during the time of legendary coach Knute Rockne. She remembered being taught as a young child the names of the fabled Four Horsemen of Notre Dame football. Tennis was a passion she shared with her children and husband. In addition to her husband, Mary is survived by daughters Brigid Rafferty, Chicago; Ellen (Bob) Renick, Franklin; Elizabeth Rafferty, Milwaukee; and Sheila (Paul) Beck, Wauwatosa, and a son, Hugh Patrick (Tina) Rafferty, Kenosha. Mary is also survived by her grandchildren Joe (Yvonne), Andy (Danielle) and John Renick; Christopher and Erin Mary Hughes; Madeline and Owen Rafferty; Ian and Lauren Beck; and great-grandchildren Penelope, Ainsley and Cole Renick. Mary is further survived by sisters Eileen (the late Jack) Knothe, LaCrosse; Jeanne (the late Bob) Salmon, Peabody, MA; and a brother, J. Patrick (Carlyn) Doyle, McComb, MS. She is also survived by sisters-in-law Audrey Rafferty and Rita Bistrick, both of Kenosha, and many nieces and nephews. Mary’s family is grateful for the kindness and care of Dr. Soryal Soryal, the staff of Vitas Hospice and Clement Manor Clare Suites. Visitation will be held on Saturday, October 19th, at St. Mark Catholic Church, 7117 14th Ave, Kenosha, WI 53143, from 9:00 a.m. until the time of Mass at 10:30 a.m. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Foundation for Peripheral Neuropathy or Literacy Services of Wisconsin would be appreciated.Proko Funeral Home & Crematory5111-60th StreetKenosha, WI 53144Phone: (262) 654-3533Visit & Sign Mary’s Online Memorial Book at:www.prokofuneralhome.com

Condolences

Louise Thompson October 17, 2019
When I came to Kenosha in the 70's it wasn't long before I met Mary at St. Marks. As our paths crossed more and more there we became good friends. The friendship continued even after we moved to Tennessee in 2001. She never forgot a birthday as her cards proved! Her friendship will always be in my heart.Photo below just strayed out of a box a month ago as I was sorting memorabilia from my life. It was taken on her 60th birthday when about 20 of us gathered together in Kenosha to celebrate her life and friendship
Julie Ruhle October 16, 2019
She was such a gentle sole. Mary was one of my earth angels and her husband, Dr. Rafferty saved my life. Mary and I were in the St. Mark's Renew together and my Mom and Mary were on the church council together. Many years ago, I had a trying medical condition and Mary helped me through it. If it wasn't for Dr. Rafferty and Mary I wouldn't be here today. May God bless Mary. I am thankful for everything Mary and Dr. has done. Love, Julie Ruhle
Bill Rafferty October 16, 2019
Such a nice lady. She'll be missed. Sorry I can't make the funeral!Bill Rafferty, Jr.
Joanne Schoenke October 15, 2019
My deepest sympathy to you Dr. Rafferty and to Brigid, Ellen, Elizabeth, Sheila, and Hugh. Mary was so sweet and kind to me when I was your neighbor on Buchanan Road and often babysat you 5 “kids”. She was such a great example of a wonderful wife and mother. Eternal Rest grant unto her O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her.Joanne (Scholey) Schoenke
Salmon Jeanne October 15, 2019
My dear sister Mary will always be in my heart. So many memories from childhood on, from our walks to and from (I mile each) St. Patrick's, to trying to get our dad to let us try driving little before license, to hearing about wedding plans; and then thrills over new babies. Though Mary and I and our families lived about 1000 miles apart, we kept in touch through these many years and delighted in visits and family reunions. And now it will be our reunion at Mary's funeral and after. These years have been a gift for us all. Special thoughts to Mary's dear husband Hugh, and to all of your family. Jeanne (Doyle) Salmon Jeanne (Doyle) Salmon
Mary Christine Kaufman October 14, 2019
So sorry to hear about your loss. I always enjoyed seeing Aunt Mary when I was younger. She always called me Mary Christine.