Ralph John Ruffolo Sr.

1927 ∼ 2018

Ralph John Ruffolo Sr.
Ralph J. Ruffolo, Sr., 90, of Kenosha, passed away from a life well lived Tuesday, September 4, 2018. Ralph is survived by his wife, Shirley (Kollmann), of 71 years and 100 family members. He was born on November 11, 1927, the fifth of seven siblings of Louis and Bertha (Bedore) Ruffolo in Kenosha. He attended Kenosha schools and left high school to join the Air Force during World War II. In high school he met the love of his life, Shirley Kollmann. They married in February 1947 and began a family that grew to eight children. Their eight children gave them 25 grandchildren and those grandchildren gave them 40 great-grandchildren. There are now 65 direct descendants and with spouses this creates a family of 102 including the two children expected next February. More than anything Ralph enjoyed the large loving family he and Shirley created together. Ralph and Shirley believed the way to build a strong loving family was to be present in their lives. When Ralph returned from World War II he worked alongside his brother, Louis, at Triangle Appliance until 1995. He finished his career at Star Furniture years later. Ralph’s expertise in sales earned him the privilege to travel to many foreign ports with Shirley. For 54 years, Ralph was very active in the Kiwanis Club of Western Kenosha, a past president, Man of the Year and a founder of CohoRama. He served as a Chairman of the Kenosha Area Chamber of Commerce, the Kenosha Expo and was active with the Retail Council for many years. He also served as Chairman of the Kenosha Crime Stoppers, Kenosha Achievement Center Golf Outing, Kenosha Band Boosters and a board member of Kenosha Area Tourism. He was a volunteer with Meals on Wheels and St. Elizabeth Church. He was an avid fisherman and loved to golf. As a tribute to his father, who taught him at a very young age how to plant and care for a garden, he continued to maintain his lawn, flowers, and garden with pride until the end. Ralph is survived by his wife, Shirley, his children, Betty (Larry) Misner of Fort Wayne, IN, Barb (Mike) Grotheim of Rotunda, FL, Ralph Jr. (Mary) of Kenosha, Jim (Lisa) of Manitowoc, WI, Judy (Bob) Busche of Kenosha, Sherri (Duane) Stipek of Kenosha, Peggy (Andy) Burke of Kenosha and Gina (Keith) Hotchkiss of Kenosha. He was preceded in death by his parents and siblings: Louis Ruffolo, Marjorie Roth, Virginia Hunter, Merle Stielow, Frank Ruffolo and Joanne West. A greeting time with the family will be held on Friday, September 7th, at Proko Funeral Home from 5:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. and will continue on Saturday, September 8th, at St. Elizabeth Catholic Church from 9:00 a.m. until the time of the mass at 11:00 a.m. A private burial will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made in Ralph’s name to The Shalom Center of Interfaith or The United Way of Kenosha for the Building Our Future program and St. Elizabeth ChurchProko Funeral Home & Crematory5111-60th StreetKenosha, WI 53144Phone: (262) 654-3533Visit & Sign Ralph’s Online Memorial Book at:www.prokofuneralhome.com

Condolences

Marjorie Meyer September 6, 2018
This year I became Ralph and Shirley's newest next door neighbor. Ralph was quick to introduce himself and invite me into their home to meet Shirley. Ralph made sure there was someone available to help with my snow removal, and shared what he knew about gardening as I attempted to create my own. I marveled at the way he and Shirley tended their home and gardens, setting a standard for the whole neighborhood. One day I came home to find Ralph repairing the leaky faucet outside my house. He worked on it diligently until it was functional, and when I thanked him he said, "That's what neighbors are for." I am honored to have know this kind and sharing gentleman, if even for a brief time. God bless him.
Joyce & Ozzie Sorensen September 6, 2018
Dear Shirley & family,Those we love don’t go away, they walk besides us, unseen, unheard, but always near, still loved, still missed and very dear. We're thinking of you all at this difficult time, and wishing you comfort and peace. Extending our sincere sympathy and friendship. Our loved seeing you both at Taste of Kenosha.