Kaitlyn Julia Zolper

1988 ∼ 2012

Kaitlyn Julia Zolper
Kaitlyn Julia Zolper, age 24 lost her battle with melanoma cancer on Sunday, December 30, 2012. She left this world surrounded by her loving family. Kaitlyn fought this battle with dignity and courage and was an inspiration to all of those she met. She was born in Kenosha on October 29, 1988, the daughter of Karen (Tim) Wendling and Michael (Debbie) Zolper. Kaitlyn graduated from Tremper High School in 2007 and UW Whitewater in 2011. Her passion in life was to work with young children and she did that in her early jobs as a camp counselor and preschool teacher. She graduated from college with a teaching degree and went on to teach elementary school children in Madison, WI, where she lived with her fiancé, Travis Ruhland. Kaitlyn had a great passion for life. She loved spending time with family and friends. She especially loved to shop and was happily planning out all the details of her wedding. Left to carry on without her is her loving family, Mother Karen Wendling (Tim), Father Michael Zolper (Debbie), sister Jennifer Zolper, brothers Ryan Zolper and Matthew Wendling, grandparents Phyllis and Don Zolper, Liz and Harv Weiss, Veronica Kundit, June Parkison, aunts and uncles Ken and Laura Rasch, Dave Rasch, Mike Rasch, John and Kim Rasch, Tim Zolper, Julie Zolper, MaryDona and Dom Fabiano, Gary and Donna Wendling, Tom and Vikki Wendling, Phil Wendling and cousins Megan, Lauren, Kevin, Steven, Sara, Alison, Kayla, Erin and Andrew Rasch, Sara, Samantha, and Dominic Fabiano. Kaitlyn also leaves behind her fiancé Travis, who can only be described as the love of her life. Though Kaitlyn and Travis did not get to fulfill their desire to be married, their love and commitment to one another was ever strong and will transcend time and continue even in her death. Kaitlyn’s time on this earth was cut short, but we know she will be one of God’s favorite angels and we will meet her again in heaven. She was preceded in death by her grandparents Beatrice and John Rasch. The family would like to thank all of her doctors, nurses, family and friends who have supported her these past years in this battle, especially Dr. Mark Albertini and his nurse Anne, Dr. Steven Howard, Heartland Hospice and family friend Shelley Flasch. Kaitlyn was a bright light in this world and filled everyone around her with joy and happiness. “The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.” --Elisabeth Kübler-Ross While we all grieve the loss of such a wonderful soul, we are comforted in the fact that Kaitlyn is finally at peace. Rest assured Kaitlyn, we will meet you again. A visitation will be held on Friday, January 4th, at Proko Funeral home from 4:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m. Funeral services will be held on Saturday, January 5th, from the Proko Funeral Home at 9:00 a.m. Mass will be celebrated at St. Mary’s Catholic Church at 10:00 a.m. Interment will follow at All Saints Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorials can be made payable to the UW Foundation-Kaitlyn Julia Zolper Memorial Fund and mailed to UW Foundation, US Bank Lockbox 78807, Milwaukee, WI 53278. The Fund will support melanoma research at the UW Paul P. Carbone Comprehensive Cancer Center in Madison, Wisconsin.Proko Funeral Home & Crematory5111-60th StreetKenosha, WI 53144Phone: (262) 654-3533Visit Kaitlyn’s Online Memorial Book at:www.prokofuneralhome.com

Condolences

Michael McKenna December 23, 2013
My family's thoughts and prayers are with you. Memories of the good times will continue to help you during this difficult time. God bless you all.Sincerely,Michael McKenna and family
Robin Barnett January 9, 2013
Dear Karen and Family - I'm so sorry for your loss, no works can express my heartfelt sympathy. You and your family will continue to be in my thought and prayers.
Regina Fengya January 8, 2013
Dear Karen, my deepest sympathies to you and your family. I can only hope that all of your fond memories can help heal the pain in your hearts. Sincerely, Regina
Jeff Michaels January 8, 2013
I am deeply saddened by your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to family and friends.
Mike Butler January 7, 2013
KarenI am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jeanne Cowger January 6, 2013
To all those who loved Kaitlyn, especially to Karen, the one I know, I offer my condolences. The loss of a loved one is a loss that can't be compared to any other. I can only imagine the loss of a child. Know that as you used to hold your child, our Lord can hold you and comfort you. May you be comforted by his presence and in the memories of your dear Kaitlyn and in the love of one another.
Rhonda Payne-O'Connor January 5, 2013
To Travis, Karen & Tim, Mike & Debbie, Jennifer, Ryan, Matthew and the rest of Kaitlyn's amazingly special family...my grief is so deep at this moment so I cannot EVEN imagine the ache that is in all of your hearts. Kaitlyn was truly one of the sweetest, kindest, most loving persons I have ever met...in a class all by herself!! I am honored that my daughter shares her first name. I pray my Kaitlyn will emulate her "namesake" and grow up to be a wonderful, caring, compassionate woman. Our lives were all blessed in some way because of a young lady named Kaitlyn Julia Zolper! Love, Rhonda Payne-O'Connor & Jeff & Kaitlyn Kay
Sue Basinger January 5, 2013
Karen and family, I'm deeply saddened about your loss. I'll keep your family in my prayers.
Vikram bhonagiri January 5, 2013
Karen and family,Deeply saddened to hear about your loss. Our family extends our heartfelt condolences and prays to God to give you strength and to bring peace to the departed soul.
Bob & Terri Minga January 4, 2013
To Mike, Karen and Family,Please accept our sincere condolences for the loss of your daughter. The memories she left behind will help your hearts heal in this enormous loss.Thinking of all of you Bob & Terri Minga
Laura Joyce January 4, 2013
Karen - I am so sorry to hear of Kaitlyn's passing. Although I didn't know her, from what I read, she was a wonderful lady and will be greatly missed. I will pray for you and your family and all of her friends to find the strength to get through this. Take care and keep your great memories close. My sympathies, Laura
Janine Westlund January 4, 2013
Karen, I am so sorry to hear about Kaitlyn --- I know she put up a strong fight for a long time. I don't know if there really are any appropriate words to take away the pain you and your family are going through, but hopefully you know that the words we are all trying to express here are to let you know that you have a vast group of people who care for you and want to try to ease your pain even if for just a bit. Kaitlyn, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Milady, Jose and Cristina January 4, 2013
Dear Karen: We are truly sorry for your loss. We hope our prayers and thoughts comfort your day.
Rhonda Reyes January 4, 2013
Karen,May the thoughts, prayers, and love of family and friends help you, your family, and all of Kaitlyn's love ones through your loss. I will continue to keep you in my prayers.
Brendgol January 4, 2013
Your family is in my prayers.
Donna Losch January 3, 2013
Mike and Deb, Thinking of you guys since Sunday and of course before. my heart breaks for all of you! I love the pictures that are being shared, they represent the love Kate had in her short life. Continuing to pray, Donna
Hari January 3, 2013
"My condolances"
Angie Green January 3, 2013
Words cannot express how sorry I am for the loss of Kaitlyn. Although I did not know her, my sympathies go out to her Fiance, Karen and the rest of those that loved her dearly. Please know you are all in my prayers and thoughts as you go through this difficult time. Sincerely Angie (Abbott)
Kevin Bidgood January 3, 2013
Karen and family,I am so sorry to hear of this news. As the father of daughters Kaitlyn's age I cannot imagine your pain and sorrow. My prayers are with you and I hope that you will get through these difficult times with the support of friends and family.Kevin Bidgood (IBM/Abbott)
Carl Ciardelli January 3, 2013
Karen,I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I cannot imagine the pain you must be going through. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Denise S Johnson January 3, 2013
Karen - my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. My prayers are with you that you would be strengthened by her memories during this difficult time.
Frederick Pascual January 3, 2013
Karen and Family,I am extremely saddened by the passing of your daughter. As you know our families both have had cancer strike our homes and I could not begin to imagine how devastating this is for you. Please know that you, your family, and Kaitlyn are in our prayers. And with all sincerity, if there is anything I could do for you, please do not hesitate one sec. Love, Pascual Family.
Betty and Ryan Neu January 3, 2013
Karen, Tim, Ryan and family, May the love of the people around you help you through this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Marybeth, Kyle & Kristen Sebetic January 2, 2013
We are very sorry for your loss. May you all find some peace & comfort at such a difficult time. Words are difficult to find & do not seem enough. Please know we have all of you in our thoughts & prayers. God Speed.
Coleen Taminger January 2, 2013
My most heartfelt condolences to you, your family and friends for the loss of your beautiful daughter.
Carm Valeri January 2, 2013
Karen I am very sorry for the loss of your beauitful daughter I was saddened to her of her illness. May God bless you and your family. Love, Carm (Jody's friend)
Christopher Price January 2, 2013
I didn't know Kaitlyn personally but I gathered she was a very special person to everyone that came into her life. My thoughts are with you and your family. Please find the courage and strength to start the healing process.
Christi, Brian, Megan Wilke and Tyler Delaney January 2, 2013
We are so sorry for your loss. No words can cover what you're going through. Kaitlyn was a wonderful, caring and adoring person. Everyone loved her with all their heart. She lit up a room when she walked in. Her smile was catchy. She'd smile, everyone would smile. It will be missed. We will miss her deeply. God has a wonderful angel under his wings and we have her looking down on us all. If there is anything that you need, please feel free to call us. HUGS!
Nancy Caldwell January 1, 2013
On behalf of Kennedy Elementary School in Madison, where Kaitlyn worked as a substitute, please accept our deepest sympathy. We were so fortunate to have her part of our school staff for many weeks last school year, and in that time, she had such a powerful impact on not only the students but our staff (and me) as well. There was something very special (that is hard to describe in words) about her, and she and I spoke of our shared hope for her to rejoin our staff as soon as she could. Our hearts are heavy and we are so very, very sorry for your loss.
Dino Gallo January 1, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. She was a good friend of my daughter andrea. I remember Kaitlyn from Golden Strings. the last time I talked to her was a couple of years ago at Relay for Life. She will be missed.
Veronica Kundit January 1, 2013
My heart goes out to the Zolper family for the loss of Kate, she was a tough cookie thru all of this. Now her pain and struggle is over and she is up in heaven watching over her family and friends she loved. She will be greatly missed. She is truly an angel.
Tom and Vikki Wendling January 1, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all through this trying time, Kait will truly be missed. We all know God must have a greater calling for her in heaven.All our Love,Tom and Vikki
Nina Harris January 1, 2013
Mike, deb, and family: I am so sorry for your loss. Know that Kate is an angel in heaven now, and you will see her again one day.
Wayne, Janet and Ben Ruhland December 31, 2012
Dear Familyof Kaitlyn and Travis,Kaitlyn is a gift! An everlasting gift that even now brightens our world. God gave us that gift. Like the gift of His Son Jesus it can never be taken away. God makes all things new again. With the human mind it is impossible to understand. With the human eye it is impossible to see. But Kaitlyn is now absolutely new, beautiful and beaming! She was never more alive and full of life than she is now in her heavenly home. Someday we will see and understand and celebrate her new life together. For now we celebrate the gift of the special love and joy in our heart that is Kaitlyn.With all of our love, Wayne, Janet and Ben Ruhland
Nancy Brand December 31, 2012
My prayers, thoughts and condolence go out to all the family and toKaitlyn's fiancée. Nancy Brand
Marsha Burks December 31, 2012
Our hearts, thoughts and love are with you and your family Karen - Your Abbott family
Anthony Tristano December 31, 2012
Mike and Family Very sorry for your loss
Martin Brown & Barb Knight-Brown December 31, 2012
With deepest sympathy on the loss of such a beautiful young life. Our prayers go out to Kaitlyn's family and Travis.