Brian Porter Ingram

1988 ∼ 2009

Brian Porter Ingram, 20, of Kenosha, passed away on Monday, May 18th, 2009, at his residence. Born in Milwaukee on December 1, 1988, he was the son of Kelly and Terrel Ingram. A lifelong resident of Kenosha, he was educated in local schools. He enjoyed drawing, writing, loved music, hunting, skateboarding and animals. Surviving are his parents, Kelly and Terrel Ingram of Pleasant Prairie; twin brother and sister, Jacob and Jayden Ingram; a brother, John "Mikey" Gennaccaro; grandmother, Joan Ingram of Kenosha; grandfather, Porter Ingram of Hollister, WI; grandparents, Warren and Penny Deming of Kenosha; uncle, Shane Ingram, Sr. of Pleasant Prairie; a cousin, Shane Ingram, Jr.; and many great aunts, great uncles, cousins and friends. Funeral services will be held on Friday, May 22nd, at Proko Funeral Home at 1:30 p.m. Interment will follow at All Saints Cemetery. Visitation will be held on Thursday at the funeral home from 5:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m.Proko Funeral Home & Crematory5111-60th StreetKenosha, WI 53144Phone: (262) 654-3533Visit Brian’s Online Memorial Book at:www.prokofuneralhome.com

Condolences

Sarah Preiss
I will always remember those birthday's at Barbie's house. Bubba had a heart of gold and now he is at peace. My prayers are with all of the family who miss him so. As they say goodbye to their beloved son. He too is saying something; hello to his final rest in peace. He is now watching over each of you shining his big smile and pouring his heart to all who cared for him. He will be missed by all whose life he touched. God bless you and your family. Bubba you were loved by many and will be greatly missed by all. Please help your family and friends be strong.
Tracy Jankowski (Tomany) July 29, 2009
Kelly & Terell, I know it has been many, many years. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you & your family. I know this is late, but I know the pain is still there. It will forever remain a hollow place in your heart. Please try to keep the good memories near & dear. Tracy
Philip Woolman May 22, 2009
He exhibited a sense of simple joy in sharing a banana split with my daughter, Tina, three weeks ago. I understand her sense of responsibility, and her compulsion to want to care for Brian. I also understand her sense of helplessness in wanting to protect this gentle creature. We can not save the world, and this realization of limitation, and mortality is overwhelming. We envisioned a future of sharing with Brian, and because of this event we are reminded that our only way to survive our grief is to love more. Brian is greatly missed.
Greg Broughman May 22, 2009
It seems like just yesterday that we were all living in the same building on Roosevelt Rd. My condolences to the entire Ingram family. Wish I could do more.
Shannon Shilts-Frye May 22, 2009
My baby Brian...I can call you baby because you were like my baby brother. I am so sorry I could not save you or protect you from all those who hurt you. I do not think anyone knows the bond we shared, especially when we were younger. You used to tell me things you would not tell anyone else, and I remember hugging you to sleep at night when you were little and just wanted your mother or father. I HATE DRUGS, ANYONE WHO DOES THEM AND WHAT THEY STAND FOR. Some people say that you were an adult and you were going to do what you wanted to do. I say that these are the very people that should have been helping you. I say that you were a young, hurt boy that needed guidance and love, not drugs. I say that anyone who contributed to your death or hurt you in any way should not be able to shed a tear for you, and I hope that the death of my precious, amazing Brian, haunts them and eats at their conscious for the rest of their lives. Brian, like that day when you were 6 years old, out at the pond,I didn't let go of your hand, I never will. I WILL NEVER LET YOU GO, I WILL HOLD ON AND NEVER LET YOU GO.
Michelle Coleman-Uttech May 22, 2009
Thinking of you guys during this time of extreme sadness. With Love...Michelle.
Adam Coleman May 22, 2009
I just heard. I am so sorry for your loss if you ever need anything please let me know.
Steve & Susan Burt May 22, 2009
Kelly, I just heard of your loss of Brian. We are So Sorry! I can't imagine what your feeling but Steve and I send our prayers and love. Please let your Mom and Shane know that we send our love too. You can e-mail us back or not. Just know that we are completely shocked. I haven't told Lisa or Jessie yet. Lisa's out of town right now. What the heck happened? I lost my Dad 2 years ago. It's unbelievably painful but just know that Brian is o.k. now. I'm sure that isn't too comforting but God Bless and we will keep all of you in our thoughts. Love, Steve & Sue Burt
Blake Uppleger May 21, 2009
Kelly, Michelle, and the Ingram family,My family's condolences. I cant imagine what you are going through. Stay strong.Please try and remember the better times shared with Brian. The Happiness he brought all who knew him, and the life which he lived, not the life cut short. I know I will.Take care, Blake.
Scott & Sharon Jesse May 21, 2009
Kelly and Tara, We are so sorry to hear about Brian. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Take comfort in knowing he is in a better place.
Jill Clay and Cody Behl May 20, 2009
To the Ingram Family...Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this tragic time. May you find some comfort in the outpouring of love from Brian's family and friends. Bless you all.
Joshua Dirk May 20, 2009
Brian was always a good friend to me and I'll miss him very much. My sincerest condolences to the rest of his family and friends.
frank parise May 20, 2009
so very sorry for your loss, Frank Parise
Kara May 20, 2009
I am so truly saddened to hear of this. Although I had not seen you in many years, I am sure you turned out to be a wonderful young man-always a joy to be around and always smiling. Kelly, Joan, Shane, Porter, Michelle, may God's peace be with you.Love KaraP.S. In viewing the other messages here, I didn't realize how many other people had knew of him as Bubba-Love you Bubba.
Lilly Lawrence May 20, 2009
Dear Joan and Family we were so saddened to hear about Brian's sudden passing. Joan, you and your loved ones are in hearts and prayers. With our love, Lilly & Marc Lawrence
Jennifer and Darren Krueger May 20, 2009
We were devastated to hear about Brian. Words can't express how truly sorry we are for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this extremely difficult time.
Wanda Ryshkus May 20, 2009
I am deeply saddened to hear this news of Brian. He was the nicest young man. I remember talking to him just probably 6 mo. ago, at the Dr's. office. I remember him at Prairie Lane, where my daughter went to school with him. Such a sweet nice young man. My heart just breaks for your family. He was so kind and a joy to talk with. My deepest and most sincere sympathy to your family. May God keep you in his care.
Catherine Forsyth-Schiefelbein May 20, 2009
We are so sorry for your loss. Brian ("Bubba") will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family.The Schiefelbeins
Quinn Ryshkus May 20, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about Brian. Though I haven't spoken to him in at least 6 years, I remember playing kickball with him at Prairie Lane. He was always nice, kind, caring, and always tried to keep a smile on everyone's face. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.Love, Quinn Ryshkus