Stephen C. Arvai, 80, of Kenosha, passed away peacefully on March 11th, 2008, at Washington Manor with his family by his side. Born on August 21, 1927, in Racine, he was the son of the late Joseph and Barbara (Zelei) Arvai. He has lived in Kenosha for the last 55 years. He served in the United States Army Reserves for 45 years, nine of which was on Active duty. He retired in 1989. On June 18, 1949, he married Phyllis Buhler at St. Joseph's Catholic Church in Racine. For 35 years he was a mechanic for Wisconsin Natural Gas Company, retiring in 1982. A member of St. Anthony of Padua Catholic Church and a former member of the Southport Gun Club, Stephen was also an avid hunter and fisherman; he absolutely loved his garden. He loved his family dearly, especially his nieces and nephews. Surviving are his wife, Phyllis of Kenosha; a brother, Joseph (Madaline) Arvai of Racine; a sister, Theresa (Rudy) Cariello of Racine; a sister-in-law, Nancy (Don) Schatzman of Racine; three brothers-in-law, Jim (Mary) Buhler of Waterford, WI, Edward (Toni) Buhler of Melrose, WI, and Bradley (Vickie) Buhler of Franksville, WI; and numerous nieces and nephews, including two in Hungary. He was preceded in death by three sisters, Barbara, Margaret, and Anna, and a nephew, Joe Kriston. Funeral services will be held on Monday, March 17th, at Proko Funeral Home at 9:30 a.m. Mass to be celebrated at St. Anthony of Padua Catholic Church at 10:00 a.m. Entombment to follow at All Saints Mausoleum. Visitation will be held on Sunday at Proko Funeral Home from 3:00 p.m. until 6:00 p.m.Proko Funeral Home & Crematory5111-60th StreetKenosha, WI 53144Phone: (262) 654-3533Visit Stephen's Online Memorial Book at:www.prokofuneralhome.com
Condolences
Leo Wendt
March 17, 2008
Steve, It would be hard to find a better friend than you. Thanks for all the help over the years. I will cherish the memories of our hunting and fishing trips and just sitting visiting. I believe my will be safe for the time being. Till we meet again, Your Friend ,Leo
Jan Wendt
March 17, 2008
How the years have passed since EMBA Couples bowling when our friendship began. The many couples weekends, picnics, but especially just the stopping by for visits. August 1999 when you stayed with Leo so I could go bowling, you bought that special birthday card for him to give me, I cried, you said, "I bought a card just like I would give my wife." How special was that. Thanks especially for your constant friendship, always a phone call away when we needed you. Peace be with you my friend!
Karen Klein-Sodemann
March 14, 2008
Phyllis, I am sorry to hear of Steve's passing. Steve was a very special man with a heart gold. My dad always spoke so highly of Steve and he always seemed so interested in young people and their activities, including myself and my brother who werent related. I will treasure my memories of Steve. Please know you are in heart and prayers at this time.
Bruce and Trudy Schatzman
March 14, 2008
Phyllis and Family,We are so sorry to hear about Steve. He was kind and strong yet a gentle man and will be greatly missed.Love, Bruce and Trudy
Sandra Boetcher
March 13, 2008
Uncle Steve.....a true gentleman in every sense of the word. I could never thank you enough for the many long quiet talks we had and how you held my hand through the darkest moments of my life. I now realize how right you were when you taught me acceptance and to recognize when it was time to move on and celebrate life. I'll do just that with your life, this I promise. Every life you touched will be forever blessed and enriched. Please wrap your arms around my parents and let them know I am starting to celebrate their lives too. Much love always, Sandra.