Amber Renee Hecke, 16, of Heavener, Okla., passed away Saturday, Dec. 17, 2005, at St. John's Hospital in Springfield, Ill. Amber was born into the loving arms of her parents, Michael Hecke and Kristina Hecke on Aug. 15, 1989, in Kenosha, where she was raised and attended local schools in Kenosha. Amber recently moved with her father to Heavener, Okla. Amber collected angels and candles of all different kinds. She loved hanging out with friends and listening to music. She is survived by her father and step mother, Michael and Sheryl Hecke of Heavener, Okla.; her mother, Kristina Hecke of Kenosha; two brothers, Gary Reagles and Michael Schmunck of Kenosha; three sisters, Crystal Reagles, Patricia Hecke, of Kenosha, and Megan Nie of Hot Springs; two step sisters, Erica and Jessica Wollmuth, of Kenosha; a grandmother, Deloris Robinson; great grandparents, Ned and Edith Sayles of Kenosha; two nephews, Gavin Reagles Nicholas Nye; and two nieces, Lillian Reagles, and Emily German. She is preceded in death by her grandfather, Earl Hecke; an uncle, Bob Hecke; and a step sister, Casey Jo Pullen. Funeral services will be held on Thursday, Dec. 22, at the Proko Funeral Home at 6 p.m. Visitation will be held on Thursday at the funeral home from 4 p.m. until the time of service.Proko Funeral Home & Crematory5111-60th Street Ph: (262) 654-3533www.prokofuneralhome.com
Condolences
schawanah
Mike and Cheryl we knew Amber Renee for just a short while but we grew to love her as our own. She has taught me a lesson in my life that has changed me forever. I wish we could have gotten to know her more but she will forever live in our hearts. Amber Nichole misses her smile, laugh and the way she always made her fill like she was her very best friend in the world. When she would go to church with us she could not wait for the alter service. She would always tell Amber Nichole lets go to the alter. This is the best part! That was where she learned she could pour out her heart and it was okay to do it. I believe she made a change in her life and I also believe God knew the earnest in her heart. Amber Renee was beautiful in every way of life. She will for ever be missed but will never be forgotten. With Prayers and Love, Schawanah Hess
Richie Ruffalo
My name is Richie Ruffalo and amber is my step cousin and I grew up with her all my life and I just want to lit you guys Know that I cared alot about her and I loved her alot. She was such a nice girl and she was funny and never scared of anybody. I am sorry for your lose. I will miss her alot. I know she is in a safe place with my mom. Love Richie Ruffalo
Christine Cantrell
Dear Matt and Tina,I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I really don't know what to say, except that I wish you and your family the best. I think we are given what we can handle, but in this case I think you have exceeded what can be expected of most. I hope everything turns out for you guys. I will definitely miss Amber and hope that you as parents can survive the loss of two children. I could not even fathom the idea. Matt and Tina I give you my deepest condolences. I have been thinking of you guys and you are definitely are in my prayers. Christine
Rebecca Rydzenski
I don't know where to begin in telling you how sorry I am for your loss. Amber was so vibrant and full of life. She was so hilarious with her little attitude and I'll miss that. I read a poem somewhere and I probably won't quote it exactly, but it is nice: The butterfly was beautiful, every detail on its body being a miracle. It only stayed for a little while, though. Even though we're sad to see it go, we still feel lucky to have seen it.
Cindy Schmunck
Amber, a young sweet soul. How greatly will she be missed. I loved her dearly and wished I had spent more time with her. Even in her passing into a new life, it is my belief that Amber has tried to teach us all a lesson. This lesson being that we need to cherish and hold close to us those that we love, and not let time pass us by. Amber's time here with us was cut way to short, but our love for Amber will always live in our hearts. As I explained to my children (her brother Michael and my daughter Emily) Amber is now a heavenly angel who is watching over all those that she loved and held dear to her heart. I will always believe that to be true. Michael my son, I love you forever and always and I wish I could take away the hurt you are feeling inside. Know that Mommy is always here for you and always will be. Mike, I am so sorry for your loss. I wish that I could take away all the pain and hurt your feeling inside as well. I just want you to know that I am always here for you, as your son Michael, and also Emily will be too. We do love you. Tina, I am sorry for your loss as well. For all those suffering this loss, I pray that with time, all will heal and instead of feeling the hurt and pain being felt now, all our love for Amber will take over and make things easier. God bless!
Dana
To the family:First, I want to say how sorry I am for your loss. Amber was such a great kid. When I was 16, I lost my high school sweetheart. I couldn't understand why God took someone from us that was so young. I read a scripture in church for him. I hope you find comfort in reading this.A blameless life is a ripe old age. Wisdom 4:7-14But the just man, though he die early, shall be at rest.For the age that is honorable comes not with the passing of time, nor can it be measured in terms of years. Rather, understanding is the hoary crown for men, and an unsullied life, the attainment of old age. He who pleased God was loved; he who lived among sinners was transported-Snatched away, lest wickedness pervert his mind or deceit beguile his soul; For the witchery of paltry things obscures what is right and the whirl of desire transforms the innocent mind. Having become perfect in a short while, he reached the fullness of a long career; for his soul was pleasing to the Lord, therefore he sped him out of the midst of wickedness. But the people saw and did not understand, nor did they take this into account.This is the word of the Lord.Mike-Michael-Gavin-Gary-Tina:Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you. Keep the memories of Amber alive and let her spirit and love live through each and every one of you.Dana
Amy R. Freitag and Stephanie and Rachel
I want to say that I am very sorry for the lost. I do have memories of Amber and some were when I would pick her up by you Mike. She always seemed to want to be by your house. Picked her up for her brothers birthday and even went to lets see, her 7 th birthday. Remember the good times and try not to think of the bad. It is going to be rough with the road to follow but your Daughter is now in a safe,loving,peaceful place. She is with her angels and GOD. Now, you know that she is your angel looking out for you and her nephew Gavin whom I know she addored so much. One day when he is older than he will know. Yet, like us he will have memories also. His dad will fill him in or I his aunty will or even his cousin Michael whom would love to talk about all kinds of thing's. Mike, if you need to talk you can call 262-925-9957, Cheryl don't worry, we met as well. We met at all diferent places. I am Dinese Dam's older daughter. So, don't worry. I just want to know how sorry I am. Keep Tough, Your son is going to need you! Hugs and kissesA friend from behind. Thinking of you's. All my love, Amy R. Freitag